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Dealing with discrimination in TL culture

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AlexL
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 Message 1 of 24
23 November 2011 at 7:14pm | IP Logged 
Oftentimes our studies of foreign languages will take us outside of our comfortable Western liberal democracies
and into countries where very different values from ours are common. There are many foreign cultures that are
hostile to women, to gays, or to people of certain religions or ethnicities. Has anyone ever been in a situation
where love for a language conflicted with discomfort in the TL's country / culture?

For example, I spent a year studying Mandarin in China, where homosexuality is not generally accepted. (Some
Chinese teenagers are becoming more accepting, but on the whole it's not a welcoming environment.) For the
whole year, I stayed in the closet as not to strain relations with my Chinese teachers, friends, and host family.
Whenever homophobic views were expressed, I felt uncomfortable. My love for Mandarin was tested by China's
apparent unwillingness to accept me.

Have any of you had similar experiences, due to race, gender, sexual orientation, disability, nationality, etc.? How
do you reconcile the fact that you love the language with the discrimination you are subjected to by that language's
culture?
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Hampie
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 Message 2 of 24
23 November 2011 at 7:40pm | IP Logged 
My interest lies mostly in languages that are dead, thus however violently opposing my persona the culture of it
might be, that does not pose any problem. Most of them had slavery, torture, capital punishment &c. &. that does
not comply at all with the modern world we live in today.

Nevertheless I’ve come to understand that foreigners to some degree usually can surpass what would normally be
accepted just because they are just that, foreigners. Being gay myself though I would not happily travel to a
country where my lovemaking were illegal — but I can definitely see myself studying a language of such a country.
I don’t see traveling, nor revealing personal details, as something imperative. Too be disturbingly honest and rude I
find Sweden, where I live, to be the best place to be, and would rather not move hence.
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Solfrid Cristin
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 Message 3 of 24
23 November 2011 at 8:02pm | IP Logged 
I can't say I have ever felt discriminated against directly, but as a woman you do meet different views about what you can and cannot do, the further away you get from Scandinavia.

I was a bit surprised though, when I was in Ukraine on a language course, and found out that the American military men who were at the same school as I were warned that Ukraine was not a good country for students of African American background.
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Arekkusu
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 Message 4 of 24
23 November 2011 at 8:52pm | IP Logged 
Not being in your situation, I cannot speak to what the consequences would have been had you openly expressed -- or at least not repressed or hidden -- your orientation, but I'd encourage anyone to be themselves insofar as it remains safe to do so. There are always open-minded people wherever you are. One shouldn't have to hide. Moreover, as a foreigner, more is usually permitted and you could even further advance the situation of other homosexuals.

Edited by Arekkusu on 23 November 2011 at 9:04pm

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JimC
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 Message 5 of 24
24 November 2011 at 1:47pm | IP Logged 
I only learn one language and do so because I first liked the culture. I learn the language to help when I travel there. I doubt very much that I would ever learn a language of a country who's culture I did not agree with and could not embrace.

Jim
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TixhiiDon
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 Message 6 of 24
24 November 2011 at 2:21pm | IP Logged 
This is a very interesting topic and one that I have thought about a lot myself. I am
hugely fascinated by Eastern European countries and languages, and I have spent a lot
of time in that part of the world. However, I am also gay, and although these
countries do not impose legal restrictions on homosexuality, neither are they known for
their tolerance.

While living in both Russia and Poland, I ended up coming out as I just found it too
tiresome to be constantly lying and hiding, and despite some rather weird comments from
my Russian friends as they tried to reconcile their prejudices with their like of me as
a person, I have never found myself in any trouble.

Now I live in Japan, which is a lot easier, not because Japanese people are
particularly liberal and open-minded, but simply thanks to the almost total lack of
machismo which is such a blight on so many cultures.

I do sometimes think I should have gone for Swedish, or Dutch, or just stayed at home
(!) and made things easier for myself, but hey, who wants an easy life? Much more fun
to take a few small risks, and challenge yourself and the perceptions of people around
you.



Edited by TixhiiDon on 24 November 2011 at 2:24pm

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prz_
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 Message 7 of 24
24 November 2011 at 8:53pm | IP Logged 
TixhiiDon wrote:
but hey, who wants an easy life?

Me.
...Says a person, who studies Bulgarian and Persian and learns Macedonian and Chinese.
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xander.XVII
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 Message 8 of 24
28 November 2011 at 10:14pm | IP Logged 
No, never.
This isn't due to particular open-minded people I've come across, but to the fact that I've visited just few countries in which I
have been living long enough to be discriminated in any way.


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