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Gender-neutral pronoun for "he/she"

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Gusutafu
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 Message 17 of 74
13 November 2009 at 11:34pm | IP Logged 
If the group of people is well-defined, you could say "the three of you" occasionally. As to the original point, what languages actually DO have a gender neutral third person pronoun that is not reserved for things? I know Chinese does, except in writing where they have actually made an effort to make the distinction, and that happened recently. But I can't think of any other example. What was the problem in English anyway? Why not use 'they'? Or just say it another way? I have never seen this as a problem in any language.
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Chung
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 Message 18 of 74
14 November 2009 at 12:06am | IP Logged 
As noted earlier, the meanings of "he", "she" and "it" ("it" being a pronoun rather than an object) in Hungarian and Turkish have been reduced to one word in both languages.

In other words, ő in Hungarian and o in Turkish mean "he, she, it"

In Mongolian, "it" can be expressed with the same word as "he, she" but sometimes "it" would be translated in Mongolian using a word that corresponds better to the English "this".
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Levi
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 Message 19 of 74
14 November 2009 at 4:08am | IP Logged 
Splog wrote:
The Politically Correct variant (particularly in academia) is now to use "she" and "her" all the time:

"The coal miner said she was meeting her sister the bricklayer"

It can get really irritating to read papers where people have tried too hard in this way.

The gender neutral words in English are "he" and "him". They are elliptic for "he or she" and "him or her" respectively. Just as "man" was long accepted as meaning "man or woman" - and only lost fashion quite recently.

I encountered one text where the author alternated between "she/her" and "he/his/him" every other time an indefinite pronoun was required. It was odd, to say the least.

I vote for "they". Yeah, some prescriptivists look down on it, but so what? It's by far the most commonly used solution in modern English, and it causes no more confusion than German and Italian do by using their words for "they" as formal second person pronouns. Context should almost always make it clear what you're referring to.

Edited by Levi on 14 November 2009 at 4:12am

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pohaku
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 Message 20 of 74
14 November 2009 at 4:29am | IP Logged 
Persian has used gender neutral "u" for "he/she/it" for over a thousand years. Him/her/it and his/her(s)/its are also gender neutral. It can be a little confusing in literature, but also very freeing for the poet.
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Levi
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 Message 21 of 74
14 November 2009 at 4:36am | IP Logged 
Spoken Chinese is the same. Though influence from European languages has resulted in three separate characters for 'he', 'she' and 'it', they are all pronounced the same ( in Mandarin).
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 Message 22 of 74
14 November 2009 at 5:06am | IP Logged 
Chung wrote:
If you want to make it sound "American", then say "y'all"


3/4 of the country would disagree with this statement. Not trying to call you on this, I just wanted to clear this up
for non-native North American speakers.

Don't use Y'all unless you are trying to sound like you're from the South-Eastern States. Basically from Texas over to
the Carolina's (and Florida doesn't count ;)

And yes I'm from the South so I can use it but not when I visit my wife's family in Long Island, unless I'm trying to
be funny.


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Levi
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 Message 23 of 74
14 November 2009 at 5:09am | IP Logged 
"You all", as two separate words, is perfectly acceptable elsewhere in America. Though at least here in the Northeast we usually say "you guys" (regardless of gender).
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 Message 24 of 74
14 November 2009 at 5:10am | IP Logged 
Cainntear wrote:
"One" is considered archaic -- no-one uses it any more.

Modern convention is to use "they/them/their" for non-gender-specific.


"One"'s certainly not archaic; people still use it. It's just a bit formal.

People often use "they/them/their" when referring to a single person, but it's still incorrect. It used to sound totally natural to me, but I've been training myself out of it(though I happened to use it earlier today). I'd rather use "him/him/his" as a gender neutral pronoun, but I don't want want people to misunderstand.


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