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Serpent
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 Message 137 of 164
16 December 2012 at 3:29pm | IP Logged 
And then you get asked, "well, have you finished X?". yikesssssssss.
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zerrubabbel
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 Message 138 of 164
16 December 2012 at 9:09pm | IP Logged 
hrhenry wrote:
Spinchäeb Ape wrote:
I find many of my own countrymen (Americans) simple minded about
language. They seem to have the view that you either don't know a language or you're
fluent in it when the truth is there are multiple levels of skill.

To be fair, this binary fluent/not fluent mindset exists everywhere, not just in the US.

R.
==

I think it has to do with how one perceives a language they dont know... especially for people who dont practice
languages... here are some details on what I mean: before you start a language, you cant decipher words from one
another, and everything just sounds like "blah blah blah blah blah ". therefore once can't really tell how good
someone else is in another language until they see them attempt to read something, or attempt a conversation... so
by defauld you get "fluent/not fluent"


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tarvos
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 Message 139 of 164
16 December 2012 at 11:23pm | IP Logged 
Serpent wrote:
And then you get asked, "well, have you finished X?". yikesssssssss.


In which case I just answer "I have never finished language X, that's an impossible task.
But I am sure I can hold the conversation without trouble"

Edited by tarvos on 16 December 2012 at 11:23pm

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bela_lugosi
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 Message 140 of 164
17 December 2012 at 12:31am | IP Logged 
It's basically the same thing in everything people do. Somebody who doesn't know anything about a particular skill that others study in their free time (skiing, engineering, casting iron... you name it) kind of automatically thinks that after a certain period of time there is no longer need to continue studying it. I know that it is not true, and probably most people know it, too. But they simply do not pause to think about how stupid the very idea is before they open their mouth.
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GRagazzo
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 Message 141 of 164
17 December 2012 at 1:18am | IP Logged 
I know someone like this at my school. He has Italian ancestry as well and claims to
speak Italian just as well as I do. This really irks me because I have put a lot of
work into my language skills and he hasn't. He can say 'ciao' and 'arrivederci'
(without a good pronunciation).

It doesn't bother me that he claims to speak it, but he claims that he can speak it
better than I can, and that I make a lot of mistake in my speech. Just the other day in
Spanish class he told me that the Spanish Aqui is Qua in Italian. Which
is right but he says that it is pronounced [ka]. I told him that the 'qu' is pronounced
the same as in English, and I also told him you could also say Qui. (obviously
he didn't believe me)

He even once asked me if I could translate a Spanish sentence in a workbook into
Italian, after I did he told me that I didn't speak Italian I was just speaking Spanish
with an Italian accent. It didn't matter that I explained to him that the two languages
are similar and that there will obviously be cognates, he just went on believing that I
was lying about my language skills.

I don't really mind that he thinks this it is just Really annoying.
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Darklight1216
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 Message 143 of 164
25 December 2012 at 5:16am | IP Logged 
What I hate is when people hear me say something in French and then go around telling people that I can speak French. >.< I want to make that pronouncement when I'm good and ready.

Maybe it sounds whiny, but I just know that the time is going to come when some is like "quick what is this French speaking politician saying on tv?" And I'll be like "uhhh" and they'll be like "I thought you spoke French?"
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cathrynm
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 Message 144 of 164
25 December 2012 at 6:40am | IP Logged 
GRagazzo wrote:
I know someone like this at my school. He has Italian ancestry as well and claims to speak Italian just as well as I do. This really irks me because I have put a lot of work into my language skills and he hasn't. He can say 'ciao' and 'arrivederci' (without a good pronunciation).


As a heritage learner, especially if your parents speak the language, I think you have have to watch out for self-deception. There is a weird reality warp about this. Learning requires honest assessment, and not from parents who will always be overly positive, but from tests or teachers.

Edited by cathrynm on 25 December 2012 at 6:58am



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