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vvaamim
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 Message 1 of 58
27 January 2013 at 9:47am | IP Logged 
Are there any languages that you guys feel obligated to learn?

For me, it's French. My family being from Louisiana and Creole-speaking, it was kind of expected that I'd
learn French. I only know a little Creole so I basically had to learn French from the ground up (and I honestly
don't see Creole helping with French other than some vocab words).

...And I've hated almost* every waking moment of it. I don't know what it is about it, but I just do not like;
however, I feel compelled to continue with. I abhor Parisian French with an adamant passion; I can't listen to
it for more than an hour than I break. I do, nonetheless, adore Quebec French and all of its quirks.

And despite everything, I'm actually not bad at it at all. As of the past couple semesters, I'm the top student in
the French department. That's not to say that it's flawless--far from it--, but I'm good at it. But every time I
would leave French class I would be in a terrible mood. Always.

Yet I can't keep my paws off of it. I guess a love-hate relationship.

Does anyone else have a similar relationship?
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Tamise
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 Message 2 of 58
27 January 2013 at 11:58am | IP Logged 
I used to have that feeling with French too - at school I did French and German, and always preferred German but ended up doing 6 years of French but only 4 of German. I went on to study German as part of my degree and mostly forgot about French. It was always at the back of my mind though that I ought to learn it and it's a language I've always wanted to know but have never really wanted to learn. I did try to do some active studying, but really hated it. Then came the super challenge and I figured it would be perfect - I've been reading and watching a lot in French and really enjoying the language without actively studying it.

The other language I feel I ought to learn is Spanish - there though it's more that I just haven't got around to it yet.
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Julie
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 Message 3 of 58
27 January 2013 at 12:23pm | IP Logged 
For me, it's French as well, for at least two reasons (which are very different for yours, though).

One is that that's the one language I felt like I failed in learning. This was mostly due to a really bad course I was unlucky to attend and a combination of other factors (such as me being a visual learner which did not help me in the case of French, and most people in my beginner's course having a few years of French learning experience under their belt) but it made me feel like I had to prove something for quite a long time, and lead to some kind of a love-hate relationship.

The other reason is a professional one, now I need French for my job so I re-focused on that despite feeling like learning other languages at the moment.

I guess it's a love-hate relationship in my case as well (I even described it this way a while ago here on HTLAL) although it's not half as intense as yours.

French is also the only language I'm actually looking forward to 'completing' it. Obviously, I'm aware of the fact you never reaally 'complete' a language; I'm just waiting for the moment when I feel I'm finally satisfied with it.
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 Message 4 of 58
27 January 2013 at 12:45pm | IP Logged 
"Obligated" is a bit too strong a word for my situation, but I feel that Spanish would be so useful to me that I'd be stupid not to learn it, especially since it's an "easy" language to me, having studied French and Italian. With the Spanish community in my city, the language would give me access to so many cool people, great parties, and hot women ;). Not to mention the travel opportunities. I'm almost surprised that not everybody here is learning Spanish.
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 Message 5 of 58
27 January 2013 at 12:52pm | IP Logged 
German, since my wife's family live in rural Germany in a former communist area. The popular maxim "all
Germans speak good English" definitely does not apply in Brandenburg and Mecklenburg Vorpommern. I
could barely say more than a few words the first time I went there and decided I better start learning. I also
wanted to learn which makes an absolutely massive difference. Speaking with country folk who have thick
accents and are not accustomed to modifying their speech for foreigners is a baptism of fire, but ultimately a
fantastic learning experience.
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tastyonions
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 Message 6 of 58
27 January 2013 at 1:03pm | IP Logged 
Spanish to some extent. I particularly remember one time in college when some friends and I were out, and a friend of a friend suddenly started talking in some extremely fluent-sounding Spanish to two guys he had overheard (I had known this guy for a couple years but never knew he could speak it). It was the first time I remember thinking, "Hey, I've lived in Texas for two full decades now. Why haven't I learned to do that yet?" The Spanish speakers I've met have been pretty cool people, too, so it would be great to talk to them in their native language.
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 Message 7 of 58
27 January 2013 at 1:13pm | IP Logged 
I had always wanted to learn Irish but it wasn't until my grandmother (who's family was
Irish) passed away a year ago that I felt a kind of 'duty' to pursue it.

It was a very difficult time for me losing her but I was able to feel some solace through
my experience with the language.

Edited by mezzofanti on 27 January 2013 at 1:14pm

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 Message 8 of 58
27 January 2013 at 1:15pm | IP Logged 
German I guess. I have no connection to Germany, and I have always been reluctant to learn it, though it's useful. Now more than ever, perhaps. The thing is, the more I study the more I like it, and then I hate the fact I like it. I sense a language love affair with German I never saw coming.


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