zerothinking Senior Member Australia Joined 6373 days ago 528 posts - 772 votes Speaks: English*
| Message 9 of 76 14 September 2008 at 3:21pm | IP Logged |
shyopstv wrote:
Mandarin.
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But they are all chinese. You'd have to have a thing for that look and for me... umm no thanks!!! XD
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Autarkis Triglot Groupie Switzerland twitter.com/Autarkis Joined 5953 days ago 95 posts - 106 votes 4 sounds Speaks: German*, English, French Studies: Italian
| Message 10 of 76 14 September 2008 at 5:30pm | IP Logged |
In addition they've got a serious surplus of native males already. ;)
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John Smith Bilingual Triglot Senior Member Australia Joined 6043 days ago 396 posts - 542 votes Speaks: English*, Czech*, Spanish Studies: German
| Message 11 of 76 14 September 2008 at 10:22pm | IP Logged |
German. Women love efficient men :)
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Autarkis Triglot Groupie Switzerland twitter.com/Autarkis Joined 5953 days ago 95 posts - 106 votes 4 sounds Speaks: German*, English, French Studies: Italian
| Message 12 of 76 15 September 2008 at 9:25am | IP Logged |
John Smith wrote:
German. Women love efficient men :)
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This discussion is getting more funny by the minute. :D
Scottish Accent: Women love men who've got their money matters under control.
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Cheeky chica Groupie England Joined 5957 days ago 70 posts - 75 votes Studies: Spanish, Japanese
| Message 13 of 76 15 September 2008 at 11:30am | IP Logged |
NOT German - unless she likes being sprayed with spit when you talk!!
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gogglehead Triglot Senior Member Argentina Joined 6076 days ago 248 posts - 320 votes Speaks: English*, Spanish, Portuguese Studies: Russian, Italian
| Message 14 of 76 15 September 2008 at 12:05pm | IP Logged |
Welsh, if the woman has a fetish for speech that sounds like someone gargling with freshly crushed glass!
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Kadphises Diglot Newbie Taiwan Joined 6150 days ago 15 posts - 17 votes Speaks: German*, English Studies: French, Mandarin
| Message 15 of 76 15 September 2008 at 1:11pm | IP Logged |
It seems most guys here don't take this question seriously. But I think it's a legitimate and good question. So, I'll try a serious answer:
I think (probably in contrast to many others here) that learning a foreign language is a good way to get to know women, but having a foreign girlfriend is maybe not the best way to learn her language (except her English is really really bad). Why is it good to learn a foreign language? Because most women appreciate it when you are interested in their country and culture and you do your best to learn their language, especially if you are an English native speaker and/or her native tongue is not one of the major languages in the world. Just being able to speak a few sentences in her language can sometimes work wonders. But why doesn't having a foreign girlfriend equal language success and fluency? Because once you "got" her, you might feel like you have reched your goal, and you will resort to the language you both can communicate in easily, which is English in most cases... So, either pick a girl who can't speak English or be really hard to yourself and try to speak with her as much in her native tongue as possible.
So, which language to learn? If you like the type, study an East Asian language, in your case probably Mandarin, as you already started to learn it. And once you got to know a Chinese girl you like, learn some sentences in her local "dialect" (Cantonese, Taiwanese, Shanghainese or whatever). Every sentence you can say in her real native language will count ten times as much as any sentence you can say in standard Mandarin.
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justinwilliams Diglot Senior Member Canada Joined 6690 days ago 321 posts - 327 votes 3 sounds Speaks: French*, EnglishC2 Studies: German, Italian
| Message 16 of 76 15 September 2008 at 5:00pm | IP Logged |
I agree with that. When I first started dating my girlfriend we would sometimes speak in French. Because she likes the language and she's learning it. But now it's English only. indeed because it is more effective. And I had this feeling of being used when we were talking in French.
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