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Serpent
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 Message 153 of 164
25 March 2013 at 11:52pm | IP Logged 
wber wrote:
Being a heritage learner, that is really true. There are times that I have some sense that something just doesn't feel right but I just can't seem to find the word for it yet since my vocabulary is not that advanced.
And it's not always a bad thing? Heritage learners can probably develop that Sprachgefühl more easily. While a native speaker of a different language will blindly trust the dictionary, a heritage learner can feel that it doesn't sound quite right.
To some extent even being simply an experienced learner is enough to experience this. Knowing how languages work is already a minimal Sprachgefühl.
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casamata
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 Message 154 of 164
26 March 2013 at 3:53am | IP Logged 
I met a northern European that has one native language and speaks very good English since he's lived in the US from like 17 to 24. He has an obvious accent but is almost like a native speaker. Well, we were just talking about sports and he suddenly tells me that he was very good at running and that he was fluent in 6 languages. Mind you, we weren't even talking about languages at all. He tells me that he is fluent in Cantonese because he has a friend from Hong Kong. (he hasn't taken classes nor has he been abroad)

How do I know that he was lying? He said that he ran a sub 4 minute mile in High School even with a 17 minute 5K time (for you fellow runners, you know that this is impossibly slow for a 4 minute miler), which would have made him one of the top 3 or so HS runners in the entire US. He then challenged me and my friends by asking us how many languages we spoke. Interesting guy that was overcompensating.
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mike245
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 Message 155 of 164
26 March 2013 at 7:22am | IP Logged 
Cavesa wrote:
Well, she could have lost her languages. I know quite a lot of people
who used to speak a language well or even used to have it as a native one and have been
losing it for some time. It starts with a few missing words here and there, continues
with getting a different accent and progresses towards complete loss and the feeling "I
used to know this". Pretty sad.

Well, I claim to be able to speak only English and French and those are the languages
where I can really hold up a conversation, be understood and speak about quite anything
I need. But I am still far from perfect. The trouble is that my family claims I speak
German, which is a trouble. I can survive in German, I can get myself understood in
some situations but I don't speak it.


I feel the same way about the languages I've studied. But my friends tend to tell
people that I am fluent in X language just because I can muddle through a basic
conversation in that language, which always makes me cringe and quickly move to correct
them.

I think being on this board with all of its accomplished polyglots also puts me in my
place!
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Bubblyworld
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 Message 156 of 164
26 March 2013 at 12:25pm | IP Logged 
Ai, one of the things I've noticed is that as soon as you tell somebody that you are studying language X, they invariably assume that you "can speak it" and are quick to share this opinion with others.

This has happened to me numerous times with Japanese, especially when I've been caught scribbling Kanji on a piece of paper for practice. Regardless of whether what I was writing made any sense at all ^_^.
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tastyonions
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 Message 157 of 164
26 March 2013 at 5:01pm | IP Logged 
I was Skyping with someone recently when he remarked that I was "fluent" in French. I guess I sounded especially good that day or something, or he was just being really generous. :-)

It's a bit awkward when someone is willing to bestow a status on you that you definitely wouldn't claim for yourself.

Edited by tastyonions on 26 March 2013 at 5:02pm

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sillygoose1
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 Message 158 of 164
26 March 2013 at 5:14pm | IP Logged 
tastyonions wrote:
It's a bit awkward when someone is willing to bestow a status on you that you definitely wouldn't claim for yourself.


South Americans and Italians tend to be guilty of this. With me, anyway.
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Serpent
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 Message 159 of 164
26 March 2013 at 5:15pm | IP Logged 
I've just realized that one reason it bothers me is that it sort of diminishes your real achievements. Anyone who's been studying for the appropriate amount of time can get called fluent. And the people who think this way tend to focus too much on a correct pronunciation or grammar while not realizing that many things they consider easy are also hard. (such as reading, in a language that has an alphabet) Especially as the pronunciation arguably has more to do with talent than anything else in language.
It's like nobody gets the right credit from the general public. Your achievements are either overrated or underrated.
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Rajsinhasan
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 Message 160 of 164
26 March 2013 at 6:43pm | IP Logged 
Bubblyworld wrote:
Ai, one of the things I've noticed is that as soon as you tell
somebody that you are studying language X, they invariably assume that you "can speak
it" and are quick to share this opinion with others.

This has happened to me numerous times with Japanese, especially when I've been caught
scribbling Kanji on a piece of paper for practice. Regardless of whether what I was
writing made any sense at all ^_^.


This happens to me quite frequently as well when my family/friends find out I'm
studying a language. Instead of inquiring what level I may have reached, they
automatically assume that I'm fluent in the language and expect me to be able to
converse on any topic in the language I'm learning. Definitely a pet peeve of mine but
I let it slide as I was quite ignorant myself of the amount of dedication and effort it
took to learn a language until I actually started doing it myself.


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