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PinkCordelia Diglot Newbie Wales Joined 4812 days ago 31 posts - 77 votes Speaks: English*, French Studies: Italian, Welsh
| Message 9 of 11 22 February 2013 at 1:03pm | IP Logged |
Presidio wrote:
You know all the times that men complain about women talking too
much?
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There's plenty of evidence that, in general conversation, women talk no more than men
and that men are more likely to dominate and interrupt. As an English teacher I've had
lots of A Level students (that's 18 year olds) conduct research projects on this
including analysing general mixed sex conversations of their peers or TV/radio
programmes with one male and one female presenter or panel discussions on TV
programmes. The overwhelming majority have found male dominance and talking more to
hold true.
Whilst it appears true that women say more words in a typical day, this appears to be
biased by the fact that women often look after children (and talk to them a lot) and
also do a lot more work with people which again requires more communication than
working with, say, an engine.
That little girls are often chattier than little boys appears to also have a cultural
basis in that studies have shown baby girls being spoken to four times as much as baby
boys. Clearly little girls are designed to be spoken to in a civilised manner whilst
boys are designed for bouncing around and having fun with. And it appears that the most
enlightened of adults do this.
I know that all such research deals with averages and snapshots in time but remember
that male complaints about women talking too much are usually centred around concerns
for power ...
But I've said enough so I'll shut up now ;)
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| Serpent Octoglot Senior Member Russian Federation serpent-849.livejour Joined 6598 days ago 9753 posts - 15779 votes 4 sounds Speaks: Russian*, English, FinnishC1, Latin, German, Italian, Spanish, Portuguese Studies: Danish, Romanian, Polish, Belarusian, Ukrainian, Croatian, Slovenian, Catalan, Czech, Galician, Dutch, Swedish
| Message 10 of 11 22 February 2013 at 6:23pm | IP Logged |
PinkCordelia wrote:
That little girls are often chattier than little boys appears to also have a cultural basis in that studies have shown baby girls being spoken to four times as much as baby boys. |
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If anyone still neglects listening...
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| Bao Diglot Senior Member Germany tinyurl.com/pe4kqe5 Joined 5767 days ago 2256 posts - 4046 votes Speaks: German*, English Studies: French, Spanish, Japanese, Mandarin
| Message 11 of 11 22 February 2013 at 9:37pm | IP Logged |
I can't refer to anything but personal experience here, but I tend to adapt to the challenges I'm met with in daily life. Depending on the environment, I may talk nonstop or utter a few hundred words a day at the very most. When the situation changes rapidly, I experience a bit of lag for a couple of days and find it hard to suddenly talk so much/so little. Based on that experience I wouldn't be surprised if other people didn't also experience adaptation to a certain degree, and I would expect the environment as well as habituation and inborn factors to influence their communication style.
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