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Takato
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26 August 2012 at 8:45pm | IP Logged 
If I find something enjoyable, I decrease the amount of time of doing it or possibly stop doing it at all. For example,

I can basically understand half of a Chinese subtitle->don't do it so often anymore,
I like a series, find it real good->stop watching it (stopped watching it last year).

Do you have some suggestions for me?
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tractor
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26 August 2012 at 9:11pm | IP Logged 
I don't think I understand your problem. Why do you stop doing something you find enjoyable?
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Hekje
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26 August 2012 at 9:24pm | IP Logged 
Maybe you feel complacent and just need to rachet up the intensity.

For example - not sure if this is the exact same thing - I got to a point where my listening comprehension was
good enough to understand virtually everything in a typical Dutch reality TV show without subtitles. Because it
was now just like watching shows in my native tongue, the excitement was gone and I no longer felt
motivated to make time for them.

Then I browsed around a little more and realized that talk shows and comedy remained far out of my reach.
Still TV, still about interesting stuff, but fairly few visual cues and much more sophisticated vocabulary. I
couldn't (still can't) follow the more technical topics without subtitles, especially when the pace was fast.
Discovering how far I had to go there made me excited about practicing my listening comprehension again.

So maybe it's something like that. You might just be hitting that plateau.

Edited by Hekje on 26 August 2012 at 9:25pm

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26 August 2012 at 11:00pm | IP Logged 
Takato wrote:


Do you have some suggestions for me?


Yes. Instead of stopping doing things you find enjoyable, keep doing them instead.
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26 August 2012 at 11:50pm | IP Logged 
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27 August 2012 at 12:13am | IP Logged 
This is a bit speculative as I am not a doctor and this is not a health forum, but I suspect your problem might be some sign of depression. Normally, if someone likes doing something (s)he will simply go for it and do it again and again. Not wanting to do something you like, however, can (I don't say it has to) be a sign of some sort of emotional trouble. Is this phenomenon only language-related or do you have this problem in several aspects of your life? If it's only language-related, my "diagnosis" is certainly wrong and your problem might simply be motivation, but if you feel this way in other parts of your life, too, you should consider talking to someone who can help you. This can be family, friends, or a doctor. I hope I didn't go too far with this post, but I simply had to utter my suspicion.

Edited by Josquin on 27 August 2012 at 12:18am

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Michel1020
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27 August 2012 at 12:22am | IP Logged 
Takato wrote:
If I find something enjoyable, I decrease the amount of time of doing it or possibly stop doing it at all. For example,

I can basically understand half of a Chinese subtitle->don't do it so often anymore,
I like a series, find it real good->stop watching it (stopped watching it last year).

Do you have some suggestions for me?


Do you prefer things to be less enjoyable ?
Maybe you decrease the amount of time doing things with time in all circumstances but you only notice it when those things are enjoyable.
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27 August 2012 at 3:37am | IP Logged 
Takato wrote:
If I find something enjoyable, I decrease the amount of time of doing it or possibly stop doing
it at all. For example,

I can basically understand half of a Chinese subtitle->don't do it so often anymore,
I like a series, find it real good->stop watching it (stopped watching it last year).

Do you have some suggestions for me?


As far as the language learning process is concerned maybe you need very demanding tasks to feel motivated.
My advice is that you should look for more challenging exercices once you loose the motivation to go on with
whatever you are doing. Tired of watching chinese movies? go for literature... Tired of the drills of your course
book? buy a more advanced one..
When it comes to other topics though (stop watching a TV series you enjoy), even though I'm sure everyone will
answer to you with the best intentions in mind, maybe this isn't the most suitable forum to post this kind of
issue.. I'm afraid we'll all speculate about it but won't be able to give you any proper feedback due to the lack of
knowledge of your situation/background and our (well, mine for sure) lack of expertise on the subject.


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