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Arekkusu
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 Message 33 of 37
13 February 2012 at 6:50pm | IP Logged 
I'm forgiving of people who keep trying no matter how much they struggle. However, I'm not very forgiving of people who don't try or who keep talking about learning languages but never do.

I also have issues with people who move to a country to learn a language, spend 99% of their time with other foreigners, only to complain about how hard learning the language is. If you live in the country but choose to spend your time with non-natives, you lose the right to complain.
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William Camden
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 Message 34 of 37
13 February 2012 at 7:37pm | IP Logged 
I have noticed that immigrants who regularly talk to native speakers generally make better headway with the language, as opposed to those who stay in a kind of language ghetto. But even people who have a good grasp of the spoken language may still need help with understanding documents.

I am inclined to give points to people who are obviously trying, after all, if there is one thing I have learned, it is that no L2 is easy.
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Bao
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 Message 35 of 37
13 February 2012 at 11:19pm | IP Logged 
William Camden wrote:
But even people who have a good grasp of the spoken language may still need help with understanding documents.

I myself need often help with things like application forms because the entire process makes me so nervous and anxious that I don't trust my comprehension of my native language anymore.
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mr_intl_dj
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 Message 36 of 37
14 February 2012 at 2:49am | IP Logged 
I think it all comes down to maturity and awareness depending on the situation.

Growing up, I really struggled speaking my own language. And as a freshman in college, my writing was so subpar that I nearly flunked my English 150 class. When I really decided to put in the effort, my language skills improved tremendously in a short amount of time.
Solfrid Cristin wrote:
Women have just as much power as men.
I can however understand on a human level, how difficult and even humiliating it must be for them. Both linguistically and culturally. And that hardly helps them in becoming more fluent.
Cool! I'm movin' to Norway. To me, that would make me want it that much more. You move somewhere, you adapt!

Iversen wrote:
I have never believed it was easy to learn languages (not even for children), so I appreciate when people do an effort - even when the result isn't perfect yet.
I just realize how true that is for children to a certain extent, especially when they're frustrated and their vocabulary is limited.

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wyctory
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 Message 37 of 37
16 July 2012 at 2:42pm | IP Logged 
As someone who speaks pretty OK English and actually landed a job as an English-Slovak
translator, I'm actually a little bit glad so many people just struggle with English at
school and then give it up. At least until I learn German well enough. If more people
learned English as smoothly as I did, I'd lose my only edge with which I tend to
identify - my job :-)

I also gained a lot of perspective through my high school friendship with one very
interesting girl. She was in a different class, but the same year as me and in the
final year, we took German together and we became friends. I was in kind of a IT-
focused class, so most of my classmates and friends were really bright, most of them
were boys and most of them also slacked a lot. On the other hand, she wasn't that
natural at grasping things, but she was a hard worker. For that, I respect her a lot
more than some of my classmates. Example from the German classes we took: she didn't
naturally pick up the language - she worked on it and focused and with this approach
became top of the class.

I guess that knowing her, along with my own language learning, I stopped giving people
a break when they moaned and groaned about language learning. I knew a LOT of girls who
thought all of the language learning is supposed to be done by a teacher, at school -
not by them, at home (AND at school). They were just lazy and society gave them a
break, because it's not that common to speak a foreign language in Slovakia.

So yeah, I'm basically very tolerant when I see someone tries really hard, and yet
struggles. I have no mercy if someone just doesn't try at all.

Once I met an African guy who just casually striked up a conversation with me on the
street. Turned out he'd been doing that a lot and had learned a lot of Slovak with this
approach. He was humble in his language learning and in return, I tried to help him as
much as I could.

I've also met a few Arabs who studied here and knew a bit of Slovak. Slovak is pretty
difficult, so I was prepared to overlook their often made mistakes, but what I just
couldn't swallow was when they stated they spoke as good Slovak as I did, at times even
better. That couldn't be further from the truth. Even native Slovak speakers vary in
their proficiency and once I actually ranked 6th in a state-wide Slovak language
competition (competing, of course, with other natives). I can't really be tolerant
towards that kind of arrogance. They thought they didn't even need to speak better
Slovak than they did.


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