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orion
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 Message 1 of 57
08 January 2007 at 10:19pm | IP Logged 
Has anyone ever been in a foreign country where the natives don't expect you to understand them, and you hear them talking about you? How about hearing foreigners in your own country talking about you in their language, which you happen to study?

What did you do about it (if anything)?
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 Message 2 of 57
08 January 2007 at 10:26pm | IP Logged 
I was in Korea and spoke Chinese with my parents, and some Koreans actually criticized Chinese and my language. I simply pretended I didn't understand what they were talking about. I didn't want to get into quarrels with Korean people, because most of them are not that bad people in my memory. Indeed, I restrained myself from speaking Japanese in Korea even though I had to use my broken Korean instead of correct Japanese. Someday I will work to try to convince the Korean people that the rise of China does more good than harm to them.
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onebir
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09 January 2007 at 4:25am | IP Logged 
It happens all the time in China, where nobody seems to expect European-looking people to speak Chinese - even in areas where lots of foreigners stay long term, and they come across Chinese-speaking foreigners on a daily basis... (eg DongZhiMen - near the embassy district in Beijing)

It can be quite amusing. A woman let me take her seat on a crowded bus in Beijing once, because her stop was near. Then the bus got stuck in traffic, and she said to her friend 'I wish I hadn't let that foreigner have my seat'. So I told her to come back and sit down, and half the bus errupted into laughter. (Don't think she'll do that again for a while).

I didn't notice it much in Malaysia (probably because my Malay's not very good) but a bunch of Malay teenagers in KL sitting at the next table started speculating about what the 'white person' was eating. They were quite surprised when I told them 'I'm eating tempeh - very tasty'. (That's a food I miss actually. :( )
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lady_skywalker
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09 January 2007 at 4:25am | IP Logged 
In Taiwan, I overheard some nurses muttering that I was fat (while I was in bed recovering from surgery, no less). Sometimes ignorance is bliss!

In Spain, I've had a few incidents where people assume I don't speak Spanish, including one incident when my partner and I went to a water park near Gibraltar. I was talking to him in English and some brat started going on about the stupid 'guiris' (a sort of derogatory word for English tourist). I just gave the boy a piece of my mind in Spanish. I can't remember what I said exactly but it shut him up very quickly!

In the Netherlands, I haven't heard anyone talk about me (to my knowledge). The only people I hear talking behind my back are my parents-in-law but that's a different story. Again, it's sometimes nice *not* to be able to understand people. :p
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 Message 5 of 57
09 January 2007 at 7:28am | IP Logged 
I was in a disco in Madrid with my Spanish boyfriend. Virtually everyone in there was from the Dominican Republic. I overheard some girls behind me say I could move my a*** quite well for a white girl. I just chuckled to myself.

Another time a priest in Toledo was explaining a painting to some Spanish tourists. He was explaining that the painting showed how wonderful the catholics were and that obviously all other religions were evil and everyone else would burn in hell... After his speach I gave him a piece of my mind and told him that being church of england I didn't agree with his thoughts, or appreciate them.

In certain areas of Spain you hear guiri and salmonete comments now and then. I think you just have to learn to be thick skinned.
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Captain Haddock
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 Message 6 of 57
09 January 2007 at 8:00am | IP Logged 
It's not quite the same thing, but at the Japanese bank machine kiosk down the block, they have a multilingual warning sign. The English, Chinese, Korean, and Portuguese text says to watch out for suspicious strangers who might steal your money. The Japanese text says to watch out for suspicious foreigners. :)
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dmg
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 Message 7 of 57
09 January 2007 at 8:22am | IP Logged 
Captain Haddock wrote:
The Japanese text says to watch out for suspicious foreigners. :)


In French, 'foreigner' and 'stranger' are both translated as 'étranger'. (There are some subtleties, and also the word 'inconnu', but it's for all intents and purposes true.)

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Captain Haddock
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 Message 8 of 57
09 January 2007 at 8:45am | IP Logged 
dmg wrote:
Captain Haddock wrote:
The Japanese text says to watch out for suspicious foreigners. :)


In French, 'foreigner' and 'stranger' are both translated as 'étranger'. (There are some subtleties, and also the word 'inconnu', but it's for all intents and purposes true.)


Quite true! But the two words are not at all the same in Japanese. Their word for foreigner is literally "outside country person".


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