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Leopejo
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 Message 17 of 46
18 November 2008 at 5:30am | IP Logged 
amphises wrote:
I don't think anyone has started arguing yet, the discussion has been perfectly civil so far.

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Sennin
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 Message 18 of 46
18 November 2008 at 9:21am | IP Logged 
amphises wrote:
Leopejo wrote:
And let's not start arguing that one way is more polite than the other. As much as it makes sense to take your shoes off in Northern countries, especially with mud and melting snow, it makes sense in Mediterranean countries to not take your shoes off and expose everybody (and the floor!) to your sweaty socks in summertime...

Besides, may the floor make a difference? Carpets don't like shoes, while I can't imagine walking without shoes/slippers with terracotta tiles.


I don't think anyone has started arguing yet, the discussion has been perfectly civil so far.

In my house at least, we walk barefoot on both the marble and parquet floor. You can step within a meter past the door with your shoes, but it's shoes off anywhere past that.


I think it is a trade-off between smelly feet and mud on the carpet really. People generally don't like smelly feet but depending on the natural environment mud might be a more daunting problem.

TheElvenLord wrote:
"I'm under the impression that English and Scottish people generally don't bother with such details, you just enter with your shoes on"

Lol. So the English and Scottish don't take off their shoes.

I know the Cornish do. You almost never find someone with shoes on.

What about the Manx, Welsh and Irish? What do they do?


To be honest, I'm not sure about the Scottish or English either. It is just a superficial observation that should be confirmed by someone more intimately informed than me.

Edited by Sennin on 18 November 2008 at 9:22am

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William Camden
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 Message 19 of 46
18 November 2008 at 10:12am | IP Logged 
In Turkish homes, you generally remove your shoes, in my experience.
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 Message 20 of 46
20 November 2008 at 3:50pm | IP Logged 
Yes, you do. It's a must in Turkey and Turkish homes in Germany too, to remove ones shoeas. Otherwise it's considered very unpolite and unhygienic.
Slippers are used though (they are not allowed to be used outside of the house though).
Many Germans I know find that kind of weird :P

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ymapazagain
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 Message 21 of 46
22 November 2008 at 9:38am | IP Logged 
I always figure that if there's carpet it should be shoes off but if it's floorboards/tiles/lino etc then it's okay to leave your shoes on, as long as they're not really dirty. It's tricky in houses where there's a mix of hard and soft floors because your socks get really dirty on the hard floors (even if they are swept regularly, a phenomenon that has always baffled me!) and that could make the soft floors dirty...hmmm...

I grew up in Australia and now live in England. It's always been shoes off in my houses.
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ChristianVlcek
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 Message 22 of 46
08 December 2008 at 9:31pm | IP Logged 
I've always taken my shoes off, in Canada, America, Ireland, Korea AND Slovakia. It's customary in these cultures it seems (not sure about America, maybe it was just my family/friends). Just for me it makes me feel more welcome, like I'm not going to be running out at a moment's notice. Also, when friends come over, I always insist they take off their shoes, especially in Canada- it's a cleanliness thing.
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LittleKey
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 Message 23 of 46
09 December 2008 at 8:28pm | IP Logged 
every time i go to my persian friends' houses, i have to take my shoes off. and it's the same with most asian countries i believe, like someone said.
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ruffy
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 Message 24 of 46
17 December 2008 at 7:05am | IP Logged 
Regarding the situation Sennin mentions, I can confirm that generally it is rare that you will be asked to remove your shoes in Scotland. In fact, on the rare occasions that this has happened, it was due to a home owner who was rather overprotective of her new carpets.

To be honest, in most cases I would be insulted if I were told to take my shoes off by someone I was visiting.


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