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An Ode to Language Partners

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Arekkusu
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 Message 9 of 17
22 April 2010 at 9:53pm | IP Logged 
josht wrote:
I've done email / chat language exchanges many times, and the biggest problems I've had are:

1) I'm all for correcting their emails and providing alternate / better ways of phrasing things. They often are not very keen to do this, as it actually takes time and effort.

2) They tend to just stop writing altogether when they lose interest in bettering their English.

I don't really have any problem with people not responding to me when it comes to non-language exchange folks, so I can only assume that they discover that the language exchange is more work than they really want to put in. :)

I think a face-to-face meeting is more motivating than email. I also had email relationships (even met one partner in Japan once), but we all eventually lost interest. Then again, even in person, you need to find the right person and that can sometimes take a few attempts.
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ManicGenius
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 Message 10 of 17
22 April 2010 at 10:00pm | IP Logged 
Arekkusu wrote:
you need to find the right person and that can sometimes take a few attempts.


So... It's like marriage?
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Arekkusu
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 Message 11 of 17
22 April 2010 at 10:09pm | IP Logged 
ManicGenius wrote:
Arekkusu wrote:
you need to find the right person and that can sometimes take a few attempts.


So... It's like marriage?

...except it's free.
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ManicGenius
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 Message 12 of 17
22 April 2010 at 10:11pm | IP Logged 
Arekkusu wrote:
ManicGenius wrote:
Arekkusu wrote:
you need to find the right person and that can sometimes take a few attempts.


So... It's like marriage?

...except it's free.


And you can leave at any time with all your stuff intact? Sweet deal.
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Saif
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 Message 13 of 17
22 April 2010 at 10:43pm | IP Logged 
I study Russian at least once a week with one of my good friends who's a second
generation Russian American. She regrets not learning it as a child since her
grandparents were fluent speakers, but she's motivated to learn it now. I also have a
friend who helps me with Farsi (in exchange I help him with Arabic). Usually I'm not a
fan of study partners or groups, I'd rather learn things on my own. But with languages, I
think it works well. It's important to share resources, practice the spoken language, go
over the grammar with someone who's just as confused as you are, etc. Each person brings
in their own perspective on how the language works. That's beneficial for those who are
willing to learn. I don't think I would have been able to achieve fluency in German in
college without my weekly language group meetings. I found German a difficult language.
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pohaku
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 Message 14 of 17
22 April 2010 at 11:36pm | IP Logged 
I study Persian and Arabic every day with my study partner. We're both native English speakers who lived abroad many years ago, so we've basically been greatly improving the skills we already had. We've been doing Persian for five years and Arabic for almost a year now. We do our work separately, each reading whatever material we're working on, and then we consult by telephone each day for 30-60 minutes to check our efforts. Right now, for example, we read a bit of the Shahnameh, the Persian epic, and 1001 Nights, in Arabic, each day. One night a week we meet and work on other material, usually several pages of a book-length poem that we've each read during the week, plus various shorter poems that we just read on the spot. We've started adding a bit of Biblical Hebrew during this weekly meeting just for a bit of spice. I work on other languages on my own, but all of my study habits and my general approach to learning languages have come from our mutually supportive study relationship. I'm sure it's hard to find such a reliable partner with the right sort of knowledge, but if you're lucky enough to have one, it can be fantastic.
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kyssäkaali
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 Message 15 of 17
23 April 2010 at 12:59am | IP Logged 
I used to have a Finnish language partner but our friendship ended rather sadly. I don't want to go into too much detail but I ended up finding out that she was sexually attracted to me, but the feeling was not mutual. I didn't want to lead her on, so I cut off the friendship. I regret it a lot. Not only was she a nice girl, and I know I must have hurt her by ending the friendship so abruptly, but now that I've moved out of Finland and back to my home country, I have no native speakers to practice with. Such is the life, I suppose.
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tricoteuse
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 Message 16 of 17
23 April 2010 at 9:33am | IP Logged 
I have had a couple (4 to be more precise) of language partners that I have found through universities or schools in the places I have lived. My latest language partner arrangement turned out very successful. We meet twice a week for Norwegian and Russian (since last October or something like that) and not very long ago we spent the weekend in Paris together! We also go shopping together or meet at each other's places to cook or do crafty stuff. Needless to say, our meetings aren't very formal anymore, they are mostly about chatting.


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