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Hencke
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 Message 2 of 19
01 November 2009 at 12:29pm | IP Logged 
Most likely somewhere between "friendly" and "friendly and endearing", not necessarily "flirty", but you'd need to rely on context, feeling and intuition from case to case to decide if there is any flirtyness involved or not.

It's quite safe for you to use it with other women too, once you have established some kind of friendship or acquaintance, but as ever with colloquial expressions and customs, if you feel the least bit uncertain about it, it is always better to err on the side of caution.
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01 November 2009 at 1:40pm | IP Logged 
Spanish people always kiss to say hello or goodbye. Men kiss women, women kiss women... but men don't kiss men. If a friend introduces me to a Spanish woman I've never met before, I immediately kiss her, and I'm not being creepy!

So yeah, you can say "un beso" to anyone.
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 Message 5 of 19
01 November 2009 at 2:24pm | IP Logged 
Cainntear wrote:
Spanish people always kiss to say hello or goodbye.

Remember that it's only once on each cheek. I think that it can be more in other countries where kissing for hello and goodbye is accepted.
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 Message 6 of 19
01 November 2009 at 6:35pm | IP Logged 
I use that a lot with my friends, only women, never with guys, nooooooo way ....Like the others have said, it's not flirting, I use it with special friends, very close friends, in that case I could end my email or my phone call with: "un beso", "besos", "un besote", etc., it's like saying "good bye" with an implicit message that says: hey, you are my friend and I love you.

Women can certainly say or write "Besos" to other women, no problem.

Edited by rggg on 01 November 2009 at 6:36pm

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 Message 7 of 19
02 November 2009 at 1:19am | IP Logged 
Cainntear wrote:
Spanish people always kiss to say hello or goodbye. Men kiss women, women kiss women...
but men don't kiss men. If a friend introduces me to a Spanish woman I've never met before, I immediately kiss
her, and I'm not being creepy!

So yeah, you can say "un beso" to anyone.


Well, not exactly, I admit Spaniards kiss without many scruples, but we really don't like to be kissing each other all
the time, usually you'll get a plain "hola" without further contact, unless you haven't seen your interlocutor in a
while or when being introduced. And in those circumstances men also kiss men when they are close friends or
related.
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 Message 8 of 19
02 November 2009 at 2:28am | IP Logged 
It's really nothing special, just a friendly goodbye. And no, a man would neither say it to nor kiss goodbye another guy (unless of course they're family, gay or just eccentric).

Edited by Juan M. on 02 November 2009 at 2:31am



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