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Ignoring du/ihr forms in German learning?

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Henkkles
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 Message 9 of 31
23 December 2013 at 11:11am | IP Logged 
I'm not an expert but I think that mentality belongs to the sixties and you can't really offend someone by using "du" especially if they can hear you're not a native speaker.

My guideline is that if someone is offended by a non-native using the wrong honorific they're not worth my time anyway.
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Josquin
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 Message 10 of 31
23 December 2013 at 11:56am | IP Logged 
How are you supposed to reach B1 if you can't even conjugate verbs properly?

You should learn all forms, because you can't always use "Sie". It will be too formal in a lot of situations. As Henkkles said, that piece of advice belongs to the Sixties. Today, people say a lot more often "du" than at those times.
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 Message 11 of 31
23 December 2013 at 1:15pm | IP Logged 
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Personally I can't see why it's such an issue though. It's only a question of adding -st or -t to the stem of the verb

It is not. Many verbs have a change of stem:

Sie sprechen
Du sprichst
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 Message 12 of 31
23 December 2013 at 1:29pm | IP Logged 
Ignoring du/ihr is like ignoring to talk.
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 Message 13 of 31
23 December 2013 at 2:14pm | IP Logged 
Henkkles wrote:
My guideline is that if someone is offended by a non-native using the wrong honorific they're not worth my time anyway.

Indeed.

Cabaire wrote:
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Personally I can't see why it's such an issue though. It's only a question of adding -st or -t to the stem of the verb

It is not. Many verbs have a change of stem:

Sie sprechen
Du sprichst

As in any language, there are irregular stems, but don't you agree that even if a foreigner uses the wrong stem, he'll still be understood in most cases?

BTW, when I notice stem-related conjugation errors or other minor mistakes, I usually try to use the same pattern with the correct form immediately afterwards. Smart language learners usually recognize what I'm doing and self-correct their mistakes.
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patrickwilken
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 Message 14 of 31
23 December 2013 at 3:31pm | IP Logged 
Cabaire wrote:
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Personally I can't see why it's such an issue though. It's only a question of adding -st or -t to the stem of the verb

It is not. Many verbs have a change of stem:

Sie sprechen
Du sprichst


Of course you are correct. I think I've just internalized these forms so strongly that I don't even think about this anymore. I would never say "Du sprechst" as it just sounds wrong, which is why I didn't think of it.

But more generally I would say learn that you add -st or -t to the end of the verb stem, AND learn the exceptions.
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 Message 15 of 31
23 December 2013 at 4:21pm | IP Logged 
I don't recommend postponing the du/ihr forms. While of course you would use Sie with strangers and elders it's really awkward to use Sie with your friends. In fact, it's even a bit awkward (IMHO) to use it with people around my own age. I don't know how old you are but I think that most young Germans and Austrians 'duzen' each other rather than 'siezen'.

Another thing, if you're chatting online or Skyping (or plan to) with any German speaking people just know that even people older than you are using du rather than Sie. I'm 23 and I do a Skype language exchange with a 41 year old and I use du with him and there are no issues or feelings of being insulted. In fact whenever I chat online and try to use Sie with older people they quickly tell me to use du with them.


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geoffw
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 Message 16 of 31
23 December 2013 at 4:53pm | IP Logged 
Cabaire wrote:
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Personally I can't see why it's such an issue though. It's only a
question of adding -st or -t to the stem of the verb

It is not. Many verbs have a change of stem:

Sie sprechen
Du sprichst


Excellent point, BUT you have to learn that stem anyway if you want to use the 3rd person
"er spricht," so if you're ONLY leaving out the 2nd person forms, it still is just a
question of adding the correct ending, no?


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