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| Message 1 of 24 12 August 2010 at 12:14pm | IP Logged |
Have you ever noticed how some people develop a certain expression or gesture to indicate that they consider a conversation to be at its end?
For instance I know a Swedish gentleman, when he meets somebody for business after a while, when he considers that all he wanted to say and hear has been said, he makes a very musical "Okaaaaaay" with two tones. That's his way of telling "For me the purpose of this meeting/conversation has been fulfilled, and unless you quickly bring up something I may have overlooked, I will shake hands and leave".
Another person I know would knock on the table with a knuckle and say "Voilà!".
And another would say "Okahye" with a strong local accent.
This is at the confines of language and sociology, for only people who consider themselves as dominant in the conversation can use such word with a result. I have seen several times kids or junior people try this trick, copying another person such as their father or boss, only to discover that the word itself is not sufficient. People just won't stop the meeting unless it is a rather senior/important/dominant person who pronounces the meeting to be at its end.
And you, have you ever noticed people using such words, expressions or gestures to signify the end of a conversation? What words did they use?
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Sennin Senior Member Bulgaria Joined 6038 days ago 1457 posts - 1759 votes 5 sounds
| Message 2 of 24 12 August 2010 at 3:14pm | IP Logged |
...cheers / cheerio in English
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luhmann Senior Member Brazil Joined 5337 days ago 156 posts - 271 votes Speaks: Portuguese* Studies: Mandarin, French, English, Italian, Spanish, Persian, Arabic (classical)
| Message 3 of 24 12 August 2010 at 4:16pm | IP Logged |
I think one usually ends a conversation by leaning away from the interlocutor.
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clang Groupie United States Joined 5343 days ago 54 posts - 82 votes Speaks: English* Studies: Russian, Italian
| Message 4 of 24 13 August 2010 at 10:24am | IP Logged |
Russian speakers in Moldova (I don't have much experience with Russian anywhere else) say "всё!" which means
"done", "all", or "everything" or "давай!" which sometimes seems to mean practically anything the speaker wants it
to mean, but could be defined as "let's/let's go", "give" , or "come on".
It's startling to me still when someone declares "done!" and walks out of the room. I think I'm used to the long
winding down of American English conversations and lingering farewells: "All right then, so, everything is good? I'll
see you. Tell your wife, hello, okay? Talk to you, soon. Good bye. Ok. All right. Later."
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brian91 Senior Member Ireland Joined 5448 days ago 335 posts - 437 votes Speaks: English* Studies: French
| Message 5 of 24 13 August 2010 at 1:14pm | IP Logged |
In Ireland, a lot of people say ''right...'' to end a conversation.
Edited by brian91 on 14 August 2010 at 10:28am
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Levi Pentaglot Senior Member United States Joined 5571 days ago 2268 posts - 3328 votes Speaks: English*, French, Esperanto, German, Spanish Studies: Russian, Dutch, Portuguese, Mandarin, Japanese, Italian
| Message 6 of 24 13 August 2010 at 3:09pm | IP Logged |
Here in upstate New York people say "all right" (with a particular intonation pattern to distinguish it from the interjection meaning "that's good"), followed by another farewell or two as clang mentioned.
Edited by Levi on 13 August 2010 at 3:11pm
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Liface Triglot Senior Member United States youtube.com/user/Lif Joined 5862 days ago 150 posts - 237 votes Speaks: English*, German, Spanish Studies: Dutch, French
| Message 7 of 24 14 August 2010 at 2:47am | IP Logged |
Levi wrote:
Here in upstate New York people say "all right" (with a particular intonation pattern to distinguish it from the interjection meaning "that's good"), followed by another farewell or two as clang mentioned. |
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Yep, I do the same thing. "All right", followed by "I'm out. Peace.".
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michaelmichael Senior Member Canada Joined 5261 days ago 167 posts - 202 votes Speaks: English* Studies: French
| Message 8 of 24 14 August 2010 at 10:44am | IP Logged |
Liface wrote:
Levi wrote:
Here in upstate New York people say "all right" (with a particular intonation pattern to distinguish it from the interjection meaning "that's good"), followed by another farewell or two as clang mentioned. |
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Yep, I do the same thing. "All right", followed by "I'm out. Peace.". |
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Haha, I say the same thing. I also like to use ciao sometimes, just to mix things up.
I never understood why i say peace, but for some reason i have an image in my head of a hippy smoking..."cigarettes"
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