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chrisphillips71
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 Message 1 of 14
05 September 2011 at 8:33pm | IP Logged 
Have any English speaking people here successfully learned Vietnamese or any other
tonal language? I originally tried to learn Vietnamese because my wife is from
Vietnam, but gave up, thinking it was too difficult. Instead of giving up on languages
altogether, I took up Spanish, which I have now studied for about 18 months. I love
Spanish, but always think about taking up Vietnamese again.

My concern is whether it is possible for a 40 year old English speaker with a full time
job and two kids to learn Vietnamese. In my 18 months of learning Spanish, I have
learned a lot, but am nowhere near "fluent" (something I define as understanding 80% of
Spanish tv). Obviously with Vietnamese I have my wife to answer any questions, but
think that it would take a long time for me to reach a level of proficiency where I
could fully take advantage of her knowledge. So my question is this, should I be happy
with just learning Spanish or give Vietnamese another go? Any thoughts, advice,
inspirational stories, or the like are appreciated.
-Chris Phillips   
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nway
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 Message 2 of 14
06 September 2011 at 2:45am | IP Logged 
Well, the tendency among enthusiasts discussing their own hobby is to be optimistic and supportive of any and all further advancement of that hobby, so I'd imagine the default answer among all of this forum's users would be "yes". It obviously wouldn't hurt to merely "try" Vietnamese, but the issue is whether it's worth the opportunity costs. So if you don't mind cutting down on your Spanish (or if not that, then cutting down on something else in your daily life) in order to allot more time to seriously studying a new language, then yes, you may as well try it out and see how it goes. You certainly (or rather, hopefully) don't have a gun to your head forcing you to continue with Vietnamese should you ever change your mind. :)

As for your age, 40 may be older than when one typically begins learning a language, but given current life expectancy estimates and their tendency to increase, you statistically can probably expect to live to around 80, meaning you still have half your life ahead of you. So if you think your entire life thus far would have been enough time to have learned Vietnamese, then it's not too late. :)
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starrye
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06 September 2011 at 3:35am | IP Logged 
Learning a language with a family and full time job is tough, but it can be done, if you are patient and creative with your time. This is what I'm doing. Though, I admit, there are times when I wish I could do more, and go at a faster pace, but it's just not realistic. So I accept the somewhat slower pace. However, the fact that your wife is a native speaker should help all the more, since you could work the language into your daily life and use it with her.

Edited by starrye on 06 September 2011 at 3:39am

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liddytime
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 Message 4 of 14
06 September 2011 at 3:51am | IP Logged 
chrisphillips71 wrote:

My concern is whether it is possible for a 40 year old English speaker with a full time
job and two kids to learn Vietnamese.   


Oh my goodness! Go for it! You have a resource that few of us have, a live-in Vietnamese expert! ( I'm
assuming your wife and her family speaks Vietnamese ) Let her know that this is important to you and I'm sure
she would be eager to help. Have an hour or two a day where you speak NOTHING but Vietnamese. It will be
pretty basic at the start but as you accumulate vocabulary you will be amazed at how much you will pick up.
Perhaps your kids would be interested in learning it with you as well?

As far as courses are concerned:
Two great free resources are the FSI Vietnamese course (Southern Dialect)
FSI Vietnamese
and the DLI course (I believe Northern Dialect but I could be wrong)
DLI Vietnamese

The DLI in particular has a TON of material. Even if you spent only 30 minutes a day on it, in a year you will
know a huge amount of Vietnamese!

I have heard mixed things about the Teach Yourself Vietnamese. The main complaint is that it goes way too fast
and is better suited as an intermediate course. You probably wouldn't get much out of Pimsleur Vietnamese
either.

You can do it!

Edited by liddytime on 06 September 2011 at 5:21pm

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newyorkeric
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 Message 5 of 14
06 September 2011 at 4:31am | IP Logged 
It's hard to do with a family, a job, and a difficult language. So you have to be in the mind set that you won't see returns to your effort for a very long time. If you can do that, I would definitely try to learn it if I were you.

To answer your first question, there are at least a few members here that learned Vietnamese. There aren't that many but unlike Mandarin for example the relatively small size of the country and the relative lack of resources and media means there are generally fewer learners and thus fewer success stories to read about.
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cathrynm
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 Message 6 of 14
06 September 2011 at 5:47am | IP Logged 
I would think studying Vietnamese would show your wife that you are interested in her and her culture -- even if she says you don't have to study Vietnamese. So there are reasons to study even you don't get to the level of understanding 80% of Vietnamese TV -- which would be a remarkable achievement for anyone. Don't worry so much about being fluent. If I worry about fluency it just makes me crazy. Make easier goals. Learn greetings, learn the numbers, learn parts of the body, etc.   I only have one rule -- do something every single day, no matter what.

I'm not sure why you gave up Vietnamese the first time, but I wonder if it's because of the vocabulary. For me, I swear the beginning level of Japanese vocabulary was insanely hard. I used flash cards, and some words I would repeat every single day for months. I'd see the card, review it, get it wrong, and then get it right, and then I'd see it again the next day and get it wrong all over again. But what happened was eventually my brain seemed to loosen up a bit, and now I seem to be able to learn new Japanese vocabulary more easily.   What got me through the beginning level was a lot of repetition with flash card software.   It was a pretty miserable, but I got through it.
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Nguyen
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 Message 7 of 14
06 September 2011 at 7:07am | IP Logged 
I am a native speaker, but I think Vietnamese would be high up on the difficulty scale based on the number of foreigners (including Asians) that I have encountered that can speak it well. One Korean guy and two Englishmen all told. The thing about these three guys is that they all started learning in their forties, so age isn't a factor. It has to do with motivation. You also need the time to do it.

I can tell you that if you can succeed in reaching an intermediate level that will be quite an accomplishment indeed! Vietnamese is a world class language (about 100,000,000 speakers)with a great culture, long colourful history and a dynamic future. The pronunciation is the hard part, you need to train your ear well and listen to the sounds. Speaking in the correct rythym is importent too. Most foreigners tend to run the words together in a group, actually Vietnamese tend to group words in pairs and almost sing them.
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chrisphillips71
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 Message 8 of 14
06 September 2011 at 6:35pm | IP Logged 
Thanks for the thoughts and encouragement. I am still undecided on what I will do. Part
of me thinks that learning Vietnamese would be great (very few Americans speak it and I
would be able to talk to my wife and her family in their native tongue). Another part of
me thinks that the hill is just to high and I do not want to detract from my Spanish
studies. If I have learned anything studying Spanish, it is that learning a language
while no being immersed is extremely difficult. There are so many things in my life that
I have given up on without seeing them through to completion. I do not want Spanish to
be another wasted effort. However, it still would be amazing to speak and understand
Vietnamese at a level beyond hello, goodbye, and thank you (my current level).
-Chris Phillips


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