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s_allard
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 Message 17 of 22
21 April 2015 at 8:14am | IP Logged 
Much of this debate about too much use of tutors is quite moot because in practice most people can only afford to
use a tutor in small doses. I doubt that people will waste precious and expensive time on things that one can do
alone.
An hour goes by very quickly. Nobody wants to waste time on trivial stuff. I wouldn't think of writing my letter in
front of my tutor when I can do this beforehand and use our meeting for the really useful stuff. This is just common
sense.

Edited by s_allard on 21 April 2015 at 4:41pm

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tarvos
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 Message 18 of 22
21 April 2015 at 8:28am | IP Logged 
s_allard wrote:
Much of this debate about too much use of tutors is quite moot because
in practice most people can only afford to
use a tutor in small doses. I doubt that people will waste precious and expensive time
on things that one do alone.
An hour goes by very quickly. Nobody wants to waste time on trivial stuff. I wouldn't
think of writing my letter in
front of my tutor when I can do this beforehand and use our meeting for the really useful
stuff. This is just common
sense.


You'd be surprised about how many people are wasteful and don't use common sense. Common
sense, is, unfortunately, rather uncommon. It bears repeating.
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s_allard
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 Message 19 of 22
21 April 2015 at 3:21pm | IP Logged 
I let people spend their money however they feel. When I pay $50 CAD an hour for good tutoring, I certainly don't
beat around the bush. Something that has not been mentioned much is how important a tutor is for insight into
actual contemporary usage of linguistic forms. I find that in a language like Spanish with a very wide geographic
reach it is very important to know how forms are used in a given location. Something that is widespread is Spain
may be rare in Mexico or have a different meaning. Then there is the whole issue of slang and informal usage that is
not often covered in books. Here there is nothing like having access to a live guide.

Edited by s_allard on 21 April 2015 at 4:40pm

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Serpent
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 Message 20 of 22
21 April 2015 at 4:57pm | IP Logged 
s_allard wrote:
I find it very amusing observing people trying to show that a tutor is not necessary or might be overkill when, in my opinion, the only good reason for not using a tutor is simply the high cost.

What about boredom? Inconveniences? (commuting/time zones etc) Leaving yourself vulnerable? (I'd rather be vulnerable in front of a friend) Having to make plans in advance or even worse, having to schedule a specific time every week? (though I'm sure most tutors are flexible about that - but you're still choosing from the time they have available) Having to justify your methods/goals/preferences? (I'm sure many are ready to adjust, but you still need to explain) Also, for me as an introvert any spoken interaction is tiring, so I'd rather spend the precious limited energy on those who matter in the long run.

And these downsides apply even to good tutors. It also takes effort to find one, and a bad tutor can demotivate you and waste your time.
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iguanamon
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 Message 21 of 22
21 April 2015 at 5:29pm | IP Logged 
You don't have to have a tutor to learn a language. No one is saying that. Well motivated learners can solve many (and some- most) problems on their own without a tutor's help. I have found (speaking only for myself) that a good tutor is worth their weight in gold. For me, it was the missing link in the chain that I needed to take Portuguese to the next level.

I have seen many, many, success stories here on the forum in my time here- both with and without tutors. I used a tutor to help me with Portuguese. I have not used one for Spanish, Haitian Creole or Ladino. With Spanish and Haitian Creole, I get my feedback from native speakers. Ladino, for me, is a reading, listening and writing language. With so few native-speakers left and most of them elderly, speaking opportunities in Djudeo Espanyol are non-existent for me.

Yes, there is expense involved. (I've never spent more than $10 USD an hour- the cost of two and a half beers at a bar here) Yes, it can be difficult to find a good tutor who meshes well. Yes, scheduling can be inconvenient. Yes, it can be embarrassing to have a "bad language day" in front of a tutor, though the embarrassment is really mostly in the learner's mind. A professional tutor has seen and heard it all.

I recommend using a tutor if it isn't too expensive for a learner's budget and if the benefit gained will be worth the expense and aforesaid difficulty involved. For me, the key is focusing on what I want to improve and what I can't do easily on my own. Combined with a multi-track approach it can be very useful, indeed.


Edited by iguanamon on 23 April 2015 at 11:08pm

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s_allard
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 Message 22 of 22
21 April 2015 at 9:25pm | IP Logged 
Once again, iguanamon says it all. Nobody says you need a tutor to learn a language, it's just highly recommended.
And as for all that stuff about boredom and a long list of inconveniences when using tutor, it seems to me that the
solution is simply to not use a tutor.


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