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Clintaroo
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 Message 17 of 94
20 March 2007 at 7:59am | IP Logged 
curon wrote:
I have come across the assumption that you must be gay if you can speak several languages. I think this has been covered on another thread somewhere though

Hmm. Can't say I've heard that one before!
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Raincrowlee
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 Message 18 of 94
20 March 2007 at 8:30am | IP Logged 
Journeyer wrote:
Raincrowlee wrote:

And the biggest "problem" I have being a ployglot is that I don't understand when people ask me, "Don't you get the languages mixed up?" I had studied five or six languages before I heard this question, so I never understood why someone would say that. Unless, of course, they've never studied a third language before in their lives.

As I keep telling people, French sounds like French, Chinese sounds like Chinese, and they sound nothing alike. I don't know how I would get confused.


Maybe they mean code-switching, constanting going back in and forth between two or more languages in the course of a single conversation, or even a sentence.


I really think that, because they've never experienced knowing more than two (or often even one), they have the wrong idea of how polyglottery works. I think most people think of languages as different programs, and that they are completely separated inside one's head. Switching from one language to another means having to "switch gears" or perhaps "switch places" inside your head.

At least that's how I've always taken it to mean.
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Journeyer
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 Message 19 of 94
20 March 2007 at 10:34am | IP Logged 
Raincrowlee wrote:
Journeyer wrote:
Raincrowlee wrote:

And the biggest "problem" I have being a ployglot is that I don't understand when people ask me, "Don't you get the languages mixed up?" I had studied five or six languages before I heard this question, so I never understood why someone would say that. Unless, of course, they've never studied a third language before in their lives.

As I keep telling people, French sounds like French, Chinese sounds like Chinese, and they sound nothing alike. I don't know how I would get confused.


Maybe they mean code-switching, constanting going back in and forth between two or more languages in the course of a single conversation, or even a sentence.


I really think that, because they've never experienced knowing more than two (or often even one), they have the wrong idea of how polyglottery works. I think most people think of languages as different programs, and that they are completely separated inside one's head. Switching from one language to another means having to "switch gears" or perhaps "switch places" inside your head.

At least that's how I've always taken it to mean.


I guess I don't know how I do it. I've been immersed in German for so long that I have to sometimes translate in my head what I'm trying to say if I need to speak Spanish. Switching doesn't quite seem like a good term for what I do, because it's too black-and-white. Maybe, "adjusting."

My aunt lived with a woman from Belgium as an exchange student, and this Belgium lady could speak several languages. She described it as going into five different kitchens: they are all similar to a point, but if she spent too much time in one "kitchen" going to another caused her some errors until she got herself re-oriented. After a bit of exposure though, she was just as smooth a role as she was in the last "kitchen" she was in.
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Chung
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 Message 20 of 94
20 March 2007 at 1:48pm | IP Logged 
curon wrote:
I have come across the assumption that you must be gay if you can speak several languages. I think this has been covered on another thread somewhere though


Perhaps you were referring to this heated thread about the supposed link of speaking French and being gay.

Frankly, it seems that the spurious link (urban legend? / stereotype?) between homosexuality and multilingualism is aimed at multilingual men. I somehow doubt that multilingual women are conversely held to be lesbians.
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Chung
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 Message 21 of 94
20 March 2007 at 1:52pm | IP Logged 
I can think of only two disadvantages

1) Dissatisfaction with yourself (if you're perfectionistic or self-depreciating) since you always feel that you need to improve on something in your target language (even if you are already fluent for all intents and purposes)

2) Embarrassment (this applies if you're ostantateous or let on that your abilities are a lot better than they actually are)
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IbanezFire
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 Message 22 of 94
20 March 2007 at 5:05pm | IP Logged 
I've never heard the gay thing in regards to being a ployglot.

The only downfalls I could see would be...

1. Time required to maintain language
2. People will expect you to be godlike in language ability and if you mess up they say "ha, your not so good after all!"
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SamD
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 Message 23 of 94
21 March 2007 at 10:27am | IP Logged 
Maybe people confuse "bilingual" and "bisexual."
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solidsnake
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 Message 24 of 94
21 March 2007 at 6:16pm | IP Logged 
honestly the biggest drawback i can think of is having to make the ultimate decision of which girl from what country who speaks what language natively will you ultimately marry?


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