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daegga
Tetraglot
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Austria
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Speaks: German*, EnglishC2, Swedish, Norwegian
Studies: Danish, French, Finnish, Icelandic

 
 Message 17 of 54
10 March 2014 at 3:52pm | IP Logged 
Serpent wrote:
It's not like anyone *wants* to be in what you call a ghetto, tbh. I'm
sure they just see that as the only option. Everyone would want to integrate AND
keep their own language&culture. Maybe many believe that this option is only open to
those who learned the language in their home country.


I very much doubt that. I've come across too many "Austrians" (ie. born in Austria)
with Turkish parents who albeit being reasonable proficient in German refuse to break
out of their Turkish bubble (not necessarily talking about the language) except for
bullying around and swearing at Austrians, which seems to be the only kind of
interaction they want to have with us.
But you are probably only talking about new immigrants, who don't speak the language
yet. Your statement might be true for them, at least they act (more) respectfully.
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luke
Diglot
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 Message 18 of 54
10 March 2014 at 8:02pm | IP Logged 
FashionPolyglot wrote:
How bad is your parents' English? My family and I have been living in the United
States for 14 years. My parents still have problems with English grammar.


Someone do this kid a favor and turn him across your knee.
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Iversen
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Denmark
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 Message 19 of 54
10 March 2014 at 9:23pm | IP Logged 
Maybe that will happen, but in the meantime I'll just say that I'm becoming slightly tired of all this negativity.
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FashionPolyglot
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Speaks: English*
Studies: Portuguese

 
 Message 21 of 54
10 March 2014 at 10:41pm | IP Logged 
Guys… please don't gang up on me. I'm trying to learn. I'm restricting myself of having to make posts, but if the
hate-fest continues, I'll have to intervene.

Now is there anyone else willing to share stories of their parents' English?
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beano
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 Message 22 of 54
10 March 2014 at 10:49pm | IP Logged 
It's easy to say that when in Rome, one should do as the Romans do. But nobody becomes fluent in a
language overnight. A Canadian family relocating to Budapest don't switch permanently to Hungarian the
moment the plane touches down. Immigrants need to find work and often they have to take whatever is
going. Language learning is done on the job.

In every country you will find immigrants whose ability in the host language ranges to zero to completely
fluency. Some people just don't care, others prioritise language acquisition. How can you ever change that?

Interestingly, many Polish people have moved to the UK over the past 10 years. Typically, they would arrive
with poor English skills but the sink-or-swim environment made sure that many learned pretty quickly. Now
there are actual Polish communities in Britain where newcomers can live and work in the Polish language
and have their immediate needs met without needing much English at all. Therefore the propensity of people
to adapt to a new language also depends on the availability of services in their mother tongue in the new
location.
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Tollpatchig
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 Message 23 of 54
10 March 2014 at 11:26pm | IP Logged 
My parents are native monolingual English speakers and I still occasionally have to
correct my dad's English as sometimes he says things that aren't grammatically correct.
It's not just foreign people who have trouble speaking English, sometimes us natives are
off the ball (I'm guilty of saying 'conversating' instead of 'conversing' numerous
times, lol)

I don't see why it makes a difference if they don't speak English that well. They
obviously have no trouble handlin business in English (you've never said you have to
translate for them). Most Americans don't care if foreigners speak like the Queen of
England or like they just learned English five minutes ago, if they can understand and
be understood then that's good enough for us.
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Luso
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Portugal
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 Message 24 of 54
11 March 2014 at 3:09am | IP Logged 
FashionPolyglot wrote:
Guys… please don't gang up on me. I'm trying to learn. I'm restricting myself of having to make posts, but if the hate-fest continues, I'll have to intervene.


I'm afraid you are not getting the message. I'll try to help you:

1. There's no hate-fest.

2. I'd never even seen that expression: how negative can you get?

3. "I'll have to intervene"? Really? Is that your register?

4. Throwing a tantrum does not help.

5. Something like "I'm reading lesson 1 of ABC course and I have a question: how do you say XYZ in Portuguese? Can you please help me?" would help. Care to try?

6. A lesson for life: coming to a public forum and saying something along the lines of "my parents have no excuse" is completely unacceptable anywhere in the world (regardless of your reasons); in some cultures, you could get in very serious trouble for that.

Edited by Luso on 11 March 2014 at 3:25am



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