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 Message 33 of 63
18 December 2013 at 11:51pm | IP Logged 
How can Metallica be a more relevant reference point than John Donne?
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 Message 34 of 63
18 December 2013 at 11:59pm | IP Logged 
I am in my mid-twenties, and I use "whom" due to my drilling in primary school, so I
think that it depends on if this concept was emphasised in one's formative education.
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 Message 35 of 63
19 December 2013 at 12:13am | IP Logged 
Elexi wrote:
How can Metallica be a more relevant reference point than John Donne?


I think Metallica are far more culturally significant than John Donne, who(m) I've never heard of.

Seriously though, some of the in-depth grammatical analysis on this thread has got me baffled. I am
completely unable to apply complex labels to my own language. I never learned to do this, I guess I was too
busy speaking English.


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 Message 36 of 63
19 December 2013 at 12:14am | IP Logged 
Elexi wrote:
How can Metallica be a more relevant reference point than John Donne?


Because I've listened to Metallica tons but never heard of John Donne.
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 Message 37 of 63
19 December 2013 at 3:11am | IP Logged 
tbreit wrote:
I am from the midwest. I also use whom. I do think it might be an age thing. Dude and brah is probably younger than I.


I'm in my 20s if that helps. Although I sometimes hear guys in their early 40s say "dude." I just say "brah" sometimes to poke fun at a friend. :)
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 Message 38 of 63
19 December 2013 at 4:55am | IP Logged 
beano wrote:
Elexi wrote:
How can Metallica be a more relevant reference point than John Donne?


I think Metallica are far more culturally significant than John Donne, who(m) I've never heard of.

Seriously though, some of the in-depth grammatical analysis on this thread has got me baffled. I am
completely unable to apply complex labels to my own language. I never learned to do this, I guess I was too
busy speaking English.


Agreed. And I use whom when I feel like it, more often than not in writing. In speech, virtually never.
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 Message 39 of 63
19 December 2013 at 6:17am | IP Logged 
American here - West Coast. Whom is not common, but not extinct either. The younger set (brah, I'm talking to you, dude) may not use it at all by the sounds of it. I see it more in written form; probably almost exclusively if I really think about it. It tends to sound overly formal, or worse, that one is trying to sound overly formal, so I try to avoid it myself.

What I find amusing is when people overuse whom in attempt to sound really, really smart and just substitute it for who as if it were just a more formal version of the same word.

I have never heard of Metallica's song, and I have always attributed the saying to Hemingway's book. I've heard of John Donne but I never knew he wrote the line originally. I learn something new every time I am on this forum!


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 Message 40 of 63
19 December 2013 at 9:16pm | IP Logged 
DaisyMaisy wrote:
What I find amusing is when people overuse whom in attempt to sound really, really smart and just substitute it for who as if it were just a more formal version of the same word.


Hypercorrection is one of the funniest linguistic phenomena, to be sure. Coo duh grah and octopi indeed.

I'm from New Jersey originally, for the record. My usage of "whom" went from non-existent to occasional as I started to learn foreign languages (and to appreciate grammar). I do use it speaking now, and in a natural fashion, most often when trying to add stress to an inquiry.

Interestingly, the primary reason is probably interference with Latin. The Latin accusative of the interrogative pronoun is quem and quam, which is remarkably similar to the proper English dative (the parent of whom), although the two are historically separate.

Look at the PIE version of the interrogative pronoun.

Accusative: *kʷim
Dative: *kʷesmey

Note the common m.

Edited by ScottScheule on 19 December 2013 at 9:17pm



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